Christ Centered Easter Basket Ideas

 *This post was originally published on 3/12/19.  Enjoy!

As Easter approaches, I've been thinking about what I want to put in the kids' Easter baskets.  It's a fun opportunity for me to treat the kids a little bit and purchase them a few fun surprises.  While I've always leaned toward filling their baskets with practical items, the past couple of years, I've also looked for opportunities to point my kids toward Christ. 

But building a Christ Centered Easter Basket requires forethought and intentionality.  It's so easy to get lost in the pastels of bunnies, chicks, and jelly beans.  As I've brainstormed the contents of our baskets this year, I thought I'd share with you a few ideas for building your own Christ Centered Easter Baskets.

Bibles--I like to gift Bibles when my children are transitioning from one life stage to another: entering elementary school, Jr. High, or graduation.  Or when my little ones are transitioning from storybook Bibles to developing quiet times.  These are a few of our favorites:

The First Message Bible
The Adventure Bible
The Action Bible
Teen Life Application Bible

Books--Books are always a favorite in our house.  There is rarely a holiday that goes by that I'm not gifting my children some sort of book.  And again there are so many wonderful characters and stories to pass on good morals to our children.  There are just a few:

Berenstain Bears and the Easter Story
Easter in the Garden
God gave us Easter
Berenstain Bears Easter Sunday
The Story of Jesus (Little Golden Book)
The Parable of the Lily
The First Easter
The Tale of Three Trees
Amon's Adventure
Our Favorite Easter Picture Books
The Mandie Books
The Sugar Creek Gang

Devotionals--I've been trying to lead my kids in a deep quiet time this year and help them develop the habit while they're still young.  In earlier years, we've gone through devotionals together as a family, and now as they're growing we leaning more toward personal quiet times.  These are a few of the tools we've used and continue to use:

3-Minute Devotions
The Names of Christ
Prayer Journal
Gratitude Journal
Bible Study (to complete with mom or dad)

Jewelry

Fancy cross necklace
Nail cross necklace
Cross bracelet


Toys and Crafts

Easter activity book
Stained glass coloring book
Stuffed lamb
Bible Pictionary

What items do you add to your child's Easter basket?

Weekend Links ll March 6, 2026

 

Shamrock Pattern Worksheets

Free Favorite Authors Quiz Pack-- Dr. Seuss

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Travel the World with Live Animal Cams

Best Preschool and Kindergarten Picture Books

One of my favorite parts of parenting has been reading with my kids.  Almost from the time they were born, we've had read alouds going in our family.  Board books were gifted, visits to the library were a regular occurrence, and sharing good stories were a normal part of our family culture.

The whole experience has been a delight.... reading on a picnic blanket at the park, snuggling on the couch with a good book, reading before bedtime... the shared moments between parent and child as the day winds down.  And getting lost in a really good story.

This was especially true when my kids were in preschool and kindergarten.  We would load up on books from the library each week, but I found it really only took 2-3 really good picture books and we'd find ourselves reading them over and over again.  My kids loved the predictability of hearing the same book multiple times. Often they were memorize the story so they could flip through the pages and "read" it to themselves.

Now that they're older, I still look back on many of these books with fond memories.  These were the portals to new and exciting adventures.  And these are the books that I recommend over and over again.  These were our Favorite Preschool and Kindergarten Picture Books:

Are You My Mother? by P.D. Eastman

Leaf Man by Lois Ehlert 

Ferdinand by Munro Leaf

The Tale of Peter Rabbit by Beatrix Potter

Miss Rumphius by Barbara Cooney

If You Give a Mouse a Cookie by Laura Numeroff & Felicia Bond

The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle

The Ugly Duckling by Hans Christian Anderson

The Busy Little Squirrel by Nancy Tafuri

Make Way for Duckings by Robert McCloskey

The Little Red Hen (Fairy Tale)

Madeline by Ludwig Bemelmans

The Little Engine that Could by Watty Piper

Our Apple Tree by Gorel Kristina Naslund

Applesauce Day by Lisa J.Amstutz

The Very Busy spider by Eric Carle

Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What do you see? by Bill Martin Jr & Eric Carle

Corduroy by Don Freeman

Curious George by Margret Rey & H.A. Rey

Go, Do, Go! by P.D. Eastman

Good Night, Gorilla by Peggy Rathmann

Good Night, Moon by Margaret Wise Brown

Pumpkin Soup by Helen Cooper

Ox-Cart Man by DonaldHalle

Around the Year by Tasha Tudo

Put Me in the Zoo by Robert Lopshire

The Rainbow Fish by Marcus Pfister

Blueberries for Sal by Robert McCloskey

The Little Red Hen by Paul Galdone

Stone Soup (Fairy Tale)

The Story of Babar by Jean de Brunhoff

The Three Billy Goats Gruff (Fairy Tale)

The Autumn Visitors by Karel Hayes

Thanksgiving in the Woods by Phyllis Alsdurf

Bear Snores On by Karma Wilson

Bear says Thanks by Karma Wilson

Cranberry Thanksgiving by Wende and Harry Devlin

Twas the Night Before Thanksgiving by Dav Pikney

Bear Stays Up for Christmas by Karma Wilson

How Do Dinosaurs Say Merry Christmas by Jane Yolen

Gingerbread Mouse by Katy Britain

What are your Favorite Preschool and Kindergarten Picture Books?

14 Ideas for Family Night

*This post was originally published on 10/12/15.  Enjoy!

 We love having a family night.  Friday nights in our family consist of homemade pizza, stove popped popcorn, and a movie.  Our selections range from Disney to old sports movies to horse movies with an occasional nature movie tossed in. 

But every once in awhile, family night needs a little shake up.  We need something new.  So here are 14 Brainstormed, Super Fun, Fantastic Ideas for Family Night:

1. Movie Night--Of course, this if our favorite.  Our usually consists of pizza and popcorn.  But maybe your tradition includes a bowl of ice cream.  Or fresh cookies.  Whatever it is, make it special.

2. Dance session--Crank up the music and dance till you fall on the floor.  Then listen to some great music together.  Mix up the genres and expose your kids to new styles.  Then catch your breath and dance some more.  Giggle and laugh and break loose.

3. Ice Cream and cookies--Maybe it's cookies and ice cream around the table or picnic style on the floor.  Or a buffet of flavors and toppings.  Talk about your week.  Sweets create a bonding experience and open up conversation.

4. Serve others--Search out opportunities to serve together.  Sort clothes at a pregnancy center, serve meals at a homeless shelter, or hand out coffee.  Make sure you debrief with your kids afterwards.  This will open up your kids to so many life lessons.

5. Board Game night--Who doesn't love a night of Monopoly and Scrabble?  There are so many games to accommodate a variety of ages and interests.  This is a great idea for laughing together with your kids.

6. Bike Rides--This is a great time of year for getting outside in the evenings and taking a walk, or better yet a bike ride.  We're finally getting to the age where the kids can all ride and we're having a great time together.

7. Rollerskating--While I have yet to get my husband on skates, the kids and I have had a blast rollerskating together.  It's a fun way to be active together and there's nothing like rollerskates to keep you from taking yourself too seriously. 

8. Camp fire with s'mores--Get a fire pit in the backyard.  Doesn't have to be anything too fancy.  Stock up on graham crackers, chocolate, and marshmallows.  Nothing says family time like a s'more.

9. Campout in the living room-- Whether you pitch a tent or just pull out the sleeping bags, be sure to make shadow puppets with the flashlights, snuggle in together, and tell ghost stories. 

10. Host a potluck--Why not host a potluck night with a couple of other families?  Invite some families for dinner or dessert.  Family night can be laughing with other moms and dads.

11. Extended family dinner--On that note, invite the grandparents, aunts, uncles, the whole lot.. sometimes you just need to interact with the larger family.  And an extended family dinner is a great invitation for your kids to serve and learn from other generations.

12. Play restaurant--My kids have a play kitchen that they love.  But even a few little kitchen items like these felt foods can provide hours of entertainment.  Let them serve you for a change.  You'll be surprised how much they remember from their own eating out experiences.  Have fun with it.  Make a poster for the restaurant, change up the decor, and assign jobs.  This one's sure to provide hours of fun.

13. Picnic dinner--With the cooler season, it's the perfect time to enjoy a meal on the patio.  Just the change of scenery can open up a whole new set of ideas and questions and conversation.  Plus it's a great way to get some fresh air and open moves the fun to playing outside after dinner.

14. Funny pictures/video--Our computer has Photo Booth and my kids love to make funny pictures and movies on it.  It has some great filters and ways to change and distort images.  But they really love it when mom and dad get involved.  Not only is it fun to play with all the settings, but it's even funnier to flip through the photos afterwards.

What about you?

What are your favorite ideas for Family Night?

What I Read and Our Homeschool Read Aloud ll February 2026

 What I Read:

Tea with Elephants by Robin Jones Gunns

Fern and Lily have known each other for 20 years.  After spending a summer together on a mission trip to Costa Rica, the girls became fast friends and dreamed of traveling the world together.  But life took them in a different direction.  Through marriage and babies, career changes and across the miles, the two have stayed in touch, drifting further and further from their plans of travel and changing the world.  So when an unexpected trip to Africa pops up, they can hardly believe their luck.  But things aren't always as they appear.  Underneath the surface, both women are facing challenges and shifts in their personal lives.  Will they be able to reconnect and support each other through the ups and downs?  And will they find strength to surrender to God's plans for their futures?  It's a sweet story of friendship and adventure ... reconnecting friendships and working through life's challenges... this is a cozy winter read without too much drama or heartache.  It did read a bit unrealistic as the issues presented in Fern and Lily's lives were too easily resolved.  Still it made for a nice light read and escape from reality.

Christian Heroes: Norman Grubb

by Janet & Geoff Benge

Another well-written biography as part of the Christian Heroes series, Norman Grubb is a man with a heart for Africa.  He and his wife dream of assisting her father, C.T. Stubb, on the mission field.  But over the years, they find themselves back home, helping to stabilize and reimagine the mission organization.  As an essential part of Worldwide Evangelistic Crusade, InterVarsity Fellowship, and the Christian Literature Crusade, among other organizations, Grubb plays a key role in world missions.  Truly inspiring story about how the Lord used one man's "YES" in the most unexpected ways.

Don't Stop Praying by Matthew West

See my full review here.

Anne of Ingleside by L.M. Montgomery

Book Six in the Anne of Green Gables series, Anne of Ingelside follows Anne and Gilbert as they parent their lot of children.  This book is made up of all the little stories that go into parenthood and living in a small town.  The children behave as young children do, and Anne often steps in with her wisdom and occasionally the imaginative life that she lived as a child herself.

The Sound of Gravel by Ruth Wariner

Ruthie doesn't remember her father.  The prophet of the LeBaron Colony in Mexico, he was killed by his brother in a power grab for control.  Her mother has since remarried and become a 2nd wife.  She grows up, splitting her time between the States where her mother can receive assistance, and Mexico where the family lives in near squalor.  Lane, Ruth's stepfather, also presents a threat when he's around.  This book is a look into the sad reality that many in this religion face: poor living conditions, low self-esteem, lack of resources and time, financial and physical abuse (among other abuses).  It's also the story of one woman who saw through her upbringing and determined to save herself.  Emotional, heartbreaking, and revealing... if you're ready for a deeper look into polygamy and its effect on children, this is one to read.

Our Homeschool Read Aloud:

Magnitude by Jennifer A. Nielsen

See my full review here.

What Are You Reading?

Magnitude {Review}

 

April 18th, 1906...

As Cora heads to the San Francisco docks to meet her father, she assumes that the worst trouble she can run into is the two boys she owes money to...

She's horribly wrong!

When the earth begins to shake and open up, Cora finds herself trapped underground with Chi, the daughter of Chinese immigrants.  The two must work together to keep from being buried alive... and that's just the start of their day.  Once they return to the surface, the girls find a city in chaos.  Separated from their families by crumbling buildings, a raging fire, and moving refugee camps, Cora and Chai team up with Oliver, Cora's lifelong friend, in an attempt to survive the natural disaster and find their loved ones.  This book about courage and friendship plays on actual events to create a thrilling historical read.

We've long been fan's of Jennifer A. Nielsen's work for awhile.  Her historical fiction brings real events to life.  The opening of Magnitude is incredibly gripping with Cora and Chi finding themselves trapped and working together to get free.  We found ourselves urging them on from chapter one.  Nielsen further introduces a variety of characters that kept us guessing as to their true intentions. But the trio of friends left us with no doubts about their bravery, friendship, or determination.  A delightful historical fiction marketed to middle grades, but to be enjoyed by all.

*Disclaimer: I received a free copy of this book from the publisher.  All opinions are my own.

March Holidays and Homeschool Ideas

 Looking for ways to add some fun to your homeschool?  Here are just a few of the holidays and fun days you can celebrate this month:

March 1st-- Peanut Lover's Day
*Treat yourself to some Chocolate Covered Peanut Butter Cheesecake Pops
*Serve up some African Chicken and Peanut Soup
*Make a craftivity project to celebrate George Washington Carver

March 2nd--Dr. Suess' Birthday
*Try some Red Fish, Blue Fish Sensory Science
*Make an opposite foot trail
*Use Dr. Suess in your literary analysis

March 6th--Oreo Cookie Day
*"Bake" some Oreo Truffles

March 12th--Plant a Flower Day
*Learn the parts of a flower
*Purchase some flowers to plant in the garden

March 14th--PI Day

*Craft a PI bracelet

*Color a PI Day picture

*Bake your favorite pie

March 17th--St. Patrick's Day
*Make corned beef and cabbage salad
*Bake a shamrock shaped pizza

March 21st--Poetry Day
*Memorize a new poem
*Start a poetry teatime
*Write an "I Am" poem

March 30th--Take A Walk In The Park Day
*Explore a new park
*Hike in your local state park

What days are you celebrating this month?

Weekend Links ll February 20, 2026

 

9 Bible Verses About Family Love

Preschool Seeds Unit Study

Free Science Fair Project Pack

28+ Spring Crafts for Preschoolers

10 Hands-On Ways to Learn About Electricity at Home

Don't Stop Praying! {Review}

 

What do you think of when you hear the phrase "prayer warrior?'  What images come to mind?  If we're honest, most of us don't picture much of a warrior at all.  Prayer often feels like a last resort, the Hail Mary of Christianity.  But what is prayer really?  What if we have it all wrong?

In Matthew West's, Don't Stop Praying, readers will travel through 40 foundational prayers... ranging from healings to strength, faith to addictions... this book addresses the power and intimacy of a personal relationship with the Lord.  Each chapter includes a short devotional, a specific prayer focus, and thoughtful journaling questions for reflection.  The devotions are short, easily read in a few minutes, without being shallow or condescending.  And the prompts and journal questions require real reflection, without bordering on cliche.

When I first picked up this book, I wasn't sure if West could really have enough to say to cover 40 different aspects of prayer.  But I was wrong.  This book was a fresh reminder of God's presence in every aspect of life.  It reminded me that prayer isn't just for the giant issues, but the pressures of every day.  God desires to hear our thoughts and concerns on every level.  It was a good recentering for my own life and I play to reread it, working slowly through each prayer and growing in what it means to truly be a prayer warrior.  This would also make a great study for a group. But be ready to be challenged by this one.  It's an incredible resource for those desiring to grow in their conversations with the Lord.

*Disclaimer: I received a free copy of this book from the publisher.  All opinions are my own.

Homeschool Week in Review ll February 2-6, 2026

Ready to take a peek into our homeschool week???

I'm always curious what other families' homeschools look like so I thought I'd share a week in the doldrums of February.  February is notorious for being hard on homeschoolers.  The holidays have come and gone, and now we're back into routine.  So what does our homeschool look like?

Monday morning was a little slow moving.  Our mornings are still dark and it's so tempting to sleep in.  But if I want to have a morning meeting, it's important we get moving so my high schoolers have the time they need to get other things done.  Morning meeting flowed well: Bible, memory work, current events and listening to a podcast on Aaron Copland since we have a symphony field trip coming up.  Mondays are clear of most extra curricular obligations so it's a good day to make progress on our bookwork.  My ninth grader worked on some writing while I worked out.  And when it warmed up later, we took our books out to the patio.  That evening my husband and I went to the dance studio to watch my daughter's modern class for parent's week.  It's always fun to see what she's been working on.  Her face is instantly transformed when she's dancing.  

Tuesdays are always what we affectionately call "Crazy Tuesdays."  That's when most of our extra curricular occur.  So I still make a checklist for my 9th grader, but I secretly have a minimized list in my head.  As long as we hit a couple of key subjects, I'm happy.  I prepped stuffed pepper soup for the crockpot while he completed a Shormann Algebra lesson.  Then I drove the mom taxi as he had Robotics class and choir in the afternoon.  Luckily Grandma was able to drop him off that evening for trampoline class so my husband and I could go watch some more dance.  This night was ballet and jazz.  Totally different styles, but my 12th grader still rocked them both.  Then it was back home to read a little and prep for the next morning.

Wednesday morning started off strong.  It's one of the days we are home more so I was anxious to have the kids working.  It was also beautiful outside.  So after an algebra lesson on the computer, we spent most of the day doing school work on the patio.  Later that afternoon, my ninth grader and I took a walk around the neighborhood, and visited with the neighbor's cats.  Our afternoon walks always give us lots of time to connect and petting kitties is a great motivator.  :-) That evening, he went to youth group while I got to watch more ballet.

Thursday was a whirlwind.  We watched some of our Shakespeare play during Morning Time and then off to do school work.  My ninth grader had a robotics class, and afterwards my 12th grader and I joined him for a meeting with our "teacher."  The kids updated her on their progress and we talked about a few details for graduation.  I can't believe how close my daughter is to graduating.  It's unreal.  Later, I took her back to ballet while my son stayed home and played card games with Grandma.  We've been playing a lot of card games this season.  My favorite has been Dutch Blitz, but I think I've burned him out on it. :-)

Friday has become our homeschool group days.  We have a couple of families we meet with for encouragement, friendship, and adventures.  This week my husband joined us and we went hiking.  We packed our lunches and ate when we got to the peak.  It's been a fun way for us to get out, and for the kids to meet some likeminded families.  Afterwards, we came home for our read aloud and Friday Night pizza and a movie.  Cool Running, of course, since the Olympics are starting.

It was a full week.  Choir is getting rolling.  Dance is filling my daughter's days.  And I'm just soaking up the moments.  We've hit a sweet rhythm this year.  

And I'm all about enjoying it!

What are your homeschool weeks looking like?

Weekend Links ll February 13, 2026

 

Valentine's Day Around the World Unit Study

5 European Famous Artists Unit Study

FREE Cover the World Printable

Suess Themed Activity Pack

Free Valentine's Day Word Search

God's Love: Heart Lantern and Bible Study

Top Five Nonfiction Reads of 2025

The Familiar Stranger by Tyler Staton

See my full review here.

Out of a Far Country by Christopher Yuan & Angela Yuan

This book has been on my to-read list for a while.  The son of Chinese immigrants, Christopher Yuan got good grades, listened to his parents, and dutifully took piano lessons.  He seems like the model son... until he wasn't.  After coming out to his parents in his early 20s, Chris distanced himself from his family.  His mother Angela found herself in a dark place, ready to end her own life.  Eventually, she learned to relinquish control and place her son in God's hands.  Chris' life takes a different turn... dropping out of college, dealing drugs, and eventually being arrested.  There were points in this autobiography that were really challenging to read, times when Christopher Yuan described the drug scene that he was involved in.  But overall, Out of a Far Country is a beautiful story of family and redemption.  So glad I finally got my hands on a copy.

Saving My Assassin by Virginia Prodan

This powerful memoir follows Virginia Prodan as she grows up in communist Romania.  After becoming a lawyer, she starts defending pastors and churches.  It's through her political activism that she becomes a target of the government, and eventually has to escape with her family.  Incredible story of prayer, perseverance, and the Lord's protection.

Experience Jesus. Really. by John Eldridge

See my full review here.

Rescue Story by Zach Williams

Wow!  This book was an honest look at the singer/songwriter's life.  Wrestling with alcohol and drug abuse for 10+ years, Williams finally finds hope and purpose in coming to the Lord.  He shares his testimony of how the Lord saved his life, marriage, and family before he made it big in the music industry.  What struck me most was his dedication to sharing his story as a way of saying, "Look what God did."  Powerful, encouraging, and a true testimony of faith and prayer.

What Nonfiction Are You Reading?

2026 Homeschool Goal ll January Check-In

Happy February!  I was thinking this week about how things are going in our homeschool.  This is the first February in several years that I haven't felt the winter blues.  It's been kind of nice.  But as I was sitting here evaluating the past month, I started thinking about our 2026 Homeschool Resolutions.  I realized I can't really have a clear picture of how we're doing without revisiting these 8 items that I felt so convicted about at the beginning of the year.  I also realized that they would be so easy to forget if I don't keep coming back to them regularly. 

So I thought I'd do a check-in to keep myself accountable.  I'm copying my resolutions here and I'll put my January Update thoughts in bold,  just to help keep things at the top of my mind.  So how did I do?

Our 2026 Homeschool Resolutions:

1. Reading Scripture together--While my kids each have their own devotional and Bible study times, I would like for us to incorporate some Bible reading together.  I'm hoping this will open up some dialogue about what we're reading together and start our day on a good note.--This one is starting slow, but steady.  We're reading together every morning during our morning time about 4-5 days/ week.  We started in Mark 'cause I didn't want to start a new habit with the genealogies of Matthew. :-) We just read a portion of Scripture and I ask the kids if anything stood out to them.  Sometimes I'll ask clarifying questions or add my own thoughts. It's been a nice low pressure way of spending time in His word together.

2. Praying together each morning--I realized our prayer times together have become route.  The idea is that having this prayer time in the morning will open up an opportunity for us to share a little more freely.  And practicing public prayer will make it less intimidating to pray with a group.--Ok, this one isn't going very well.  I think we've only done this a handful of times.  I'd like to pray to end our morning time, but it seems like everyone is pretty antsy by then.  I may need to find a different place for prayer in our day.

3. 12 Read Alouds in the Year--We love our read alouds. And I love that reading good books together gives us a chance to adventure together... even on a limited budget.  As the kids have gotten older and the books longer, 12 books feels like a good goal for the year.--We had two shorter read alouds at the beginning of our list so we actually read two in January.  I really enjoyed Listening for Lions.

4. Go on 12 Hikes this year-- Ok, we've made hiking goals before and failed miserably..  So I'm keeping it really simple this year.  Only 12.. should be doable.--No, no hikes yet, but we have one on the calendar for February.  Yay!

5. Celebrate Lydia's graduation--I can't believe I'm graduating my second kid.  Unbelievable!  I have a feeling the way we celebrate this one will be very different from the way we celebrated the first.  But I want to make it just as special so it's time to start planning now.--We did a little planning in January.  Ordered the cap and gown.  Panning on getting some photos together this next month.

6. One on One Dates--Yes, this is parenting.  But with homeschool, parenting and education bleed into each other.  Having strong relationships and time to listen can only allow for more openness and connection during our homeschool days.--January was a half-win.  I did get a one on one date with my 9th grader, but not my 12th grader.  I've got my thinking cap on for something she might enjoy doing together this month.

7. Plan 6+ homeschool field trips--Having one kid graduated and two in high school, I realize more every day just how small this window of time really is.  So field trips mean so much.  Making time to enjoy learning, experience new opportunities, expand their horizons... I have 2 in the works right now, with multiple tabs open for potential learning over the next year.--I'm putting the finishing touches on a field trip for February.  No field trips in January, but we did go to the snow with our homeschool group, so I can kind of count that one.

8. Stay invested in our homeschool group--Our high school home group has been a lifeline this year.  Giving my kids an opportunity to make likeminded friends AND be mentored by other quality parents... WIN/WIN!  I'm definitely making time in our schedule to keep this going.--We're just getting our spring semester going, but we've had a couple of outings and have spent some time with one of the families outside of our weekly meeting.

As you can see, my theme this year is CONNECTION, CONNECTION, CONNECTION!  Now more than ever, I'm well aware of how important relationship is in our homeschool.  Everything flows from that starting point.  So happy to be raising my very best friends.

Are you making homeschool resolutions this year?

Weekend Links ll February 6, 2026

 

Churro Cookies

Heart Science Activities for Kids

What is Executive Functioning? ll A Parent's Guide

Valentine Handwriting Worksheets

Love Scripture Cards for Kids

Valentine's Day Escape Room Printables

Kids' Valentine's Gifts for Every Love Language

 *This post was originally published on 2/8/16.  Enjoy!

 

Being a parent of three kids means that I'm always always on my toes.  Just when I think I've got them figured out, something changes and I'm studying them again, trying to figure out what makes them tick.  How do they learn best?  How do they communicate?  And how they do they give and receive love?

So this Valentine's Day, along with the chocolates and cards from Mom and Dad, I want to find ways that I can really show love in a way that my kids will receive it.  All individual, all strong willed, and all speaking a different love language, these three kiddos place value on different expressions of love.  And that got me thinking: How can I speak each child's love language for Valentine's Day?

Acts of Service:  Night off from Chores or a Favorite Meal

If you have a child's who values Acts of Service, why not give them a night off from their chores?  My kids are incredibly active and offering to take their chores for a night or Saturday is very much appreciated.  Mowing the lawn, spot cleaning a favorite jersey, or doing the dishes is an inexpensive way to serve your kids.

One of my kid's favorite acts of service is to have a favorite meal cooked.  They love having a voice in helping plan our menu, but I also like to surprise them and just spontaneously cook a meal I know they will especially enjoy.  It's a simple way of showing your kids that you're thinking about them.

Words of Affirmation: An Encouraging Card, Parent/Child Journal, or Valentine's Door Hearts

When we speak Words of Affirmation of our kids, I can see their whole attitude change.  Their faces lighten up, their shoulders relax, and their whole appearance does a 180.  Take a few moments to reflect and write a thoughtful card speaking into your child's life.  Purchase a journal that you can pass back and forth between parent and child sharing your thoughts and feelings.  Or make Valentine's Door Hearts for your kids.

Physical Touch: Snuggle Time or Back Rub

I have one child that loves to snuggle.  It's so opposite of the rest of this child's personality.  Sometimes I forget just how important it is to keeping this child balanced.  But a little snuggle time, just reflecting on the day and taking some time to just be with each other goes a long way.

Or if being still is too much, take some time to play catch, jump on the trampoline, or go for a bike ride.  Doing something physical together can have a similar affect and create a bonding experience.  Don't forget to high five or give your child a pat on the back after an awesome play or trick.  Put your arm around them as you walk and embrace them in a big hug.

Gifts: Favorite Candy, Book, or Hobby Item

Love Language gifts don't have to be huge, but any small item that's been thoughtfully purchased will bring a smile to your child's face.  About six months ago, I knew Noah had been wanting to try Origami so I took a 40% off coupon to Jo-Ann's and purchased him a pack of Origami paper.  All in all, it cost me about $3 and 20 min of my time.  You would have thought I bought him the world.  That was the most treasured package of Origami paper that's ever been bought. 

So keep your eyes and ears open.  Is there something small that your child has been wishing for?  Valentine's Day isn't meant to be overly extravagant, but thoughtful.  Even a package of favorite candy or gum can show that you've been thinking about that specific person.

Quality Time: Go Out Together

This is one of the easiest for me, but probably because it's one of my top two love languages.  My daughter is like this.  She's taken a love for cooking and baking lately, and I've come to realize that a lot of it has to do with spending time with me and my husband.  Since cooking is a necessary part of raising a family and since mom spends so much time doing that, Lydia wants to be in the kitchen as well.  Slowing down and reminding myself to involve her in food prep has been a challenge, but she craves that quality time and it's been a blessing to both of us.

But don't stop there.  Keep an observant eye for other things your child enjoys.  Is it a bike ride, a movie together, or a meal when they can actually get a word in?  For my daughter, she loves having the chance to go out to a meal with my husband or I, away from the loud boys, where she feels safe enough to voice her opinion. 

So what about you?

In what ways can you speak your child's love language on Valentine's Day?  

How We Teach: Composer Study

 Over the years, I've tried to bring more truth, beauty, and goodness into our homeschool.  We've studied artists, memorized Scripture and poetry, and learned about the ballet.  And I've always wanted to bring more classical music and composers into our home as well.  The problem?  I just didn't understand how to do it.  It seemed too simple, too easy... it just didn't make sense that we could study music in starts and stops, and find it worthwhile.  I was wrong.

As intimidating as composer study seems, I promise... it's a lot easier than you think.  And the benefits are HUGE!  So WHY should you study classical music in your homeschool?

*Brain Development-- Classic music can increase focus, improve math skills, and enhance memory.

*Emotional Development-- Music is full of mood, and emotion, and expression.  Listening to and discussing music can increase your child's emotional intelligence and regulation, and increase their empathy.

*History and Culture-- Music is influenced by the time and culture in which it's birthed.  Classic music expresses the history and mindsets prevalent to the time period and can help students better understand the world around them.

*Creativity--  Music is a beautiful expression of creativity and life.  

*Music Appreciation-- Whether your child plays an instrument or not, listening to classical music can open doors for a powerful appreciation of the arts.

Now you're convinced, but where do you start?  How do you find the music, the composers?  How do you made music study a part of your day?

We mostly follow the composer study resources provided by Ambleside Online.  They list the composers for each year along with a list of pieces you can listen to.  Other times in our homeschool, we've studied famous ballets and I've created Youtube playlists of that composer's work.  Or another option would be to look for a local symphony production.  Listen to the composer's work in the weeks leading up to the live show.

But what about putting this study in your day?  How do you incorporate music study in such a way that it's natural and not overwhelming?

*Listen to a piece during breakfast or morning chores-- Play a piece of music while your children are all around the table and enjoying a meal.  Or while they're getting their chores done.  Start slow.  Just a minute or two.  Discuss what you hear and how it made them feel.

*Play classical music during independent learning-- Music with no lyrics makes great background for handwriting, math skills, and independent reading.

*Focus on one composer for a time-- Often we pick one composer to focus on for the term (approx. 12 weeks).  This allows us enough time to become familiar with the style and sound.  

*Make a game out of it-- play freeze dance, musical chairs, musical charades, drawing what you see when you listen to a piece of music, creating facial expressions to go with the music, etc.  These are all great ways to help kiddos re-engage and stay engaged.

*Watch a fun musical performance-- Piano Guys are so much fun to watch.  Classical music is also a part of many cartoons.

Studying composers and classic music doesn't have to be overwhelming.  Listen to a few composers and pick one you think your kids would like.  Then naturally work the music into your day... a few minutes at breakfast or during morning basket... a call to "school time" or as background music for reading... Just listen, talk, and enjoy together.  There's really no right or wrong... just enjoyment.

How do you incorporate music study in your homeschool?

Weekend Links ll January 30, 2026

 

Groundhog Day Printable Book

Week Long Unit Studies for Upper Grades

Practical Homeschool Resources for the Teen Years

Free Printable Homeschool Attendance Sheet

Chinese New Year Interactive Notebook

What I Read and Our Homeschool Read Alouds ll January 2026

 What I Read:

Helen Roseveare: Mama Luka

by Janet and Geoff Benge

The missionary biography of Helen Roseveare, an English doctor who moves to the heart of Africa to open a hospital.  During her time there, she faces unimaginable difficulties.  From escaping both kidnappings and intentional poisonings, to building her own medical school with the help of her students, Roseveare follows the Lord's leading in a life of adventure and purpose.  Truly inspiring story.  We love this series of books.

Anne's House of Dreams by L.M. Montgomery

When Anne marries the love of her life, Gilbert, they move to Four Winds Harbor, where he begins his career as a doctor.  There they make their own little house of dreams, forging new friendships and building a life together.  Through both joy and heartache, Anne and Gilbert discover the true meaning of love and family.  I'm constantly amazed by L.M. Montgomery's ability to develop new characters as well as bringing out more and more of Anne's true self.

Peg and Rose Stir Up Trouble by Laurien Berenson

Estranged sisters-in-law, Peg and Rose, are finally learning how to get along when Rose signs Peg up for a senior dating website.  Peg is reluctant until she makes a connection with Nolan Abercrombie, a handsome , successful, attentive bachelor.  But when Nolan is killed, Peg and Rose swoop in  and start investigating his death.  It turns out Nolan had A LOT of enemies.  These two senior sleuths team up to solve the mystery as the suspect list continues to grow.  A page turner to the very end, this book had just the right mix of mystery and humor, perfect for a lighthearted read.

Grit Don't Quit by Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Life eventually knocks all of us down.  Some knocks are easier to get back up from.  Some knocks... some knocks take the wind out of us.  Then what?  We have to dig in for hope, perseverance, and grit.  Author Bianca Juárez Olthoff uses the life of Paul to illustrate how grit can be cultivated into emotional, mental, and spiritual health. Falls will come, life will knock us senseless... but it's more about whether we stay down and believe the lies, or get backup and chase after God's purpose in our lives.

A Wolf Called Fire by Rosanne Parry

In this stand alone companion to A Wolf Called Wander, Warm finds himself in charge of the pups when an enemy pack kills his parents.  Often seen as the weaker sibling, Warm must protect, provide, and form the pups into a new pack.  But food is scarce, and enemy is stalking them.It isn't until the two packs face off that Warm realizes what a great leader he's become.  This was a great story about family, survival, and find purpose and leadership.  I'm adding this one to our recommendation list for grades 4-6. 

Our Homeschool Read Alouds:

Listening for Lions by Gloria Whelan

When the flu sweeps through her African village, Rachael Sheridan finds herself orphaned... and abducted by a couple trying to find their way back to England.  The Pritchards' try to use Rachael to get into favor with her "grandfather" so they can return home to the family fortune.  Posing as Valerie, she and the grandfather strike up a friendship.  But when the Pritchards return, Rachael finds that she can no longer keep up the facade.  But what will her confession do to Grandfather?  I wasn't sure what to expect from this book, but we really loved it.  The characters were so well written and the storyline kept us engaged from cover to cover.  Really great work.

Extra Credit by Andrew Clements

Abby Carson hates school.  She'd much rather be out in the woods, building and exploring.  But when she's threatened with failing 7th grade, Abby much take on an extra credit assignment... writing letters to a pen pal..  But in Afghanistan, things are different.  Sadeed is the best student in his school and should be the one writing letters to Abby.  But because he's a boy, he must write letters through his sister.  At first he resents the work, but it isn't long before an unlikely friendship materializes.  Still there are those who believe connects with America are unhealthy, and the letters become dangerous... especially for Sadeed and his sister.  I loved the innocent friendship between the two main characters, and the frank, but gentle, look at differences in culture and traditions.

What are you reading?